You must have heard about Brian Tracyif you haven’t heard about him, then tell me tell you, Brian Tracy Is a CEO & chairmanOf Brian Tracy International company, he personally consult more than 1000 companiesfor Growth And success, he gave speech in front of more than 50 lakh people, he gave around 5000 talkand seminar that too in more than 70 countrieshe has done more than 30 years of research and study on some very serious topics likeEconomics, history,business, philosophy, and psychologyhe is also a best-selling author who has written more than 70 books on such topicsNow why i am talking so much about Brian Tracy?well i am sharing about him because Brian on the basis of his knowledge and Experiencesays A Very Important thing, he says that if you go to him and ask him one thing which is very importantto get success, and if he has few seconds or minutes to reply on it then his answer will be”Write down your goals, make plans to achieve it and work on it every single day.”take a book, sit and write your goals; what’s your life goalsand make a plan to achieve those goals, then take actions every day as per the planeventually these things will give you successa famous writer Hubbard says and had written that”Maximum people fails not because they don’t have brain, abilities or couragebut they fail because they don’t organise and set goals proper for themselvestherefore today i will share 5 steps which will help you to understand how you can do do goal setting taskthrough which you can take action and can complete and accomplish many goals and dreams of 2019so let’s begin
NUMBER ONE
No.1) Unlock Potentialif you take Home pigeon out of its nest and trap him in a net and later if you put a blanket over the Netand if you put it inside the box along with the blanket and if you keep that box inside the truckand take that truck few kilo meter away from its nest and after reaching at pointif you remove pigeon out of that box, what will happen then?that pigeon will fly in circle for 3 to 4 times, and somehow after sometime he will return to his nestSuch a great and amazing goal seeking power of a pigeon, it is most powerful in the entire animal kingdomBut excluding humans, we humans have more capability of achieving goal compare to pigeonswe can achieve any goal but only thing required is Goals clarityIn Fact Stanford University study suggests, that many average people use only 2 percent of their brain potentialnow don’t confuse it with a myth that we use only 10 percent of our brain alwaysActually That study is saying that average people uses only 2 percent of their success achieving potentialExample: it’s somewhat like winning 1 cr in a lotterybut out of that 1 cr taking only taking 2 lakhs and not using remaining amounttherefore step no.1 says: always remember that you have lot of potential in youbecause without such realisation it is very difficult to achieve any goalStep.
NUMBER TWO
2: Take chargesuppose there are two men, who were terminated at the time of recession by their bossnow the first men gets very angry, and abuses boss and the companyand he utilises his small savings to file a case against them for a revenguebut second man act differently it that same situation, he says its ok, maybe company wasn’t earning profitthats why they removed me, but no issue in next job il be so good that they can’t think about removing menow both man’s different approach has different resultssecond man uses his savings and energy to find another job, after few efforts he gets new jobin his new job he works hard and slowly makes his life betterwhereas the first man under the influence of negative emotions ruins his life,instead of making his life better he makes his life worstthe biggest enemy of humans happiness and success is their own negative emotionsin fact Brian Tracy says that since very beginning the thing which ruined human’s lifewasn’t any disease or plague, but it was human’s own negative emotionshence it is important for us to stay away from such negative emotionsand to avoid it we have to stop doing 4 thingsfirst: stop justifying your negative emotionssecond: stop Rationalising your negative emotions, yes i was angry because it was boss or his or her’s faultand it is but obvious to be angry etcthird: stop giving attention to others opinionswhat others will say, why i was removed from job etcand last fourth: stop blaming others for your own situationit’s all companies fault, i am such a victim, i am fighting for others etcdoing all these things increases our problems, hence avoid doing itand should take 100 % responsibility of ourselves and of our livesand should make our life better just like the second man by completing our goals
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No.3) True Goalsif i ask you, how your life should be after 5 years? then what would be your answerwell i want you to imagine, that after 5 years your life is almost perfectyou have everything which you wanted from life, your dreams has become realitythen how you will answer these questionsno.1) how your life style will be after 5 yearsno.2) what work you will be doing?no.3) how much you will be earning?
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no.4) which car you will be drivingno.5) which businesses you will be doing?Charles Garfield has Done a study on people who were very average in every aspect of their livesthey were average in everything financially, studies relationship etcbut those people have seen sudden changes and success in their livesafter doing a study on such people, he came to know the reason why they start facing sudden changesand success in their lives was because of the concept which they start using in their livesand that Concept is known as Blue Sky thinking.In Blue Sky Thinking, Instead of thinking by looking at the ground, a person sets goal at looking skymeans sets goal without having any limitationsMark Victor who is a co-author of Chicken Soup Bookhe recommends you to sit take a paper and start writing , at least write 100 goals which you want to accomplishthen imagine that you have lot of time, money, friends and abilities which are required to fulfil that goalsthink something like this and Fantasise your dreams, and write your goals which gives you clarityexample: if you are doing a job which you don’t like,for this if you do this exercise and thing that you’ve got lot of moneythen you won’t think about the job, and continue doing it in your futureand if you are doing a job which you like and fond of doing itthen no matter how much money you’ll get, even in the future you will keep it as a part of your lifeyou can ask similar questions to yourself to know the clarity of goalsespecially for you’ll i have created an exercise by including many questions of this bookif you want to do it then i will make a file of it and add its description in the linkNo.4) PlanningInc. Magazine has done a study on 50 startupsin which 25 companies had made a proper plan on how they will complete their goalshowever remaining 25 companies didn’t made any plans and they did things with timeand result of it came, after 2 to 3 years companies which had created plans were very successfulcompare to companies who didn’t planned at allnow you all must be expecting this right, that yes obviously this would be the resultbut the most interesting thing came out of that research was that companies after making planthey didn’t even follow it, in fact many saw that plan after a yearbut still they became successful why?because the most interesting thing is that many a times Planning Process is the most important thingcompare to creating or making A perfect planany startups you will see there plans changes depending on the time, which is completely finehere the thing is; Planning process, business development thinking processthat thing help people to handle business properlytherefore after getting clarity on goals, create a plan; it’s ok if its not perfect but still make plansnow here question comes,after setting big goals. how to plan to execute themfor this there’s an english saying: that if you want to eat an elephant.then how you will eat itanswer for this is: One Bite at a timesimilarly, to achieve big goals you have to break them in smallhas to plan yearly, weekly, monthly and daily goalsexample: if someones main goal is to reduce 24 kgthen a man will plan for 12 kg and year and achieve it in 2 yearsmeans monthly he will plan of reducing only 1 kgand for daily he will plan for how will he exercise how many hours he will exercise what good diet he will havethis way big goals gets accomplish that too very easily
NUMBER FIVE
No.5) Measure Progresswhen you complete a small work you feel happy.because that time your brain releases Endorphin.what happens when you finish a big work or task?even that time you faces similar type happiness because of same reasonsmeaning if you want to feel happy continuously without affecting working motivationthen don’t think of finishing big goal togetheryou should break that big goal into small and should notice how much you are progressingthrough this you will get natural high in achieving every small goal and also confidence will improvewhich will eventually help you to complete your big goalanother important reason why progress measuring is importantbecause of it your skill improves example: suppose you are going for a meetingbefore you leave for a meeting, if i say to you that today you will notice on the basisof your attentiveness, and on the basis of it you will be evaluate.and by doing this, at the time of meeting your listening skill and attentiveness will for sure increasecompare to the person who wasn’t informed about itsimilarly when you create a plan, set a goal and then measure it how much you are growingrelated to that goal, then with it your performance and skills will for sure improvewhich will help you to achieve your goals